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Next Up: Tech Events

New Jersey Technology Council’s Capital Conference (the state of available capital — what is it?) on January 28 at the Westin in Princeton.

NJEN’s February 2
meeting on how to access university smarts for your business, with Lt. Gov. Kim Guadagno speaking at Rutgers.

NJTC’s CEO Forum
at Edison Venture Fund on February 4.

Bill Ford speaks at the Keller Center at Princeton University, February 15.

Looking ahead: Mercer County Economic Summit, March 24

From Hatshepsut to Merkel: Leading Like a Man?

“Women must learn to play the game as men do,” said Eleanor Roosevelt. In her new book, Thinking About Leadership, Princeton professor Nan Keohane takes 34 pages to discuss whether gender makes a difference. As the former president of Wellesley and Duke, she concluded that one’s ability to maintain gender-based leadership qualities depends on the job. “Even though my leadership of Wellesley or Duke may have had a slightly more inclusive flavor than is typical of such offices, I soon learned that the necessity of getting things done, dealing with varied interests and personalities, and perspectives, and making tough decisions and moving on brought me to lead in ways that were generally quite similar to how male leaders of such institutions perform.”

Keohane will speak at the Princeton Public Library on Monday, January 31, 7:30 p.m.

In her “Does Gender Make a Difference?” chapter she discusses some of the great women leaders in history: Hatshepsut , Elizabeth I, Jane Addams, Margaret Thatcher, Katharine Graham, Michelle Bachelet , Ellen Johnson Sirleaf , and Angela Merkel.

The careers of Addams and Eleanor Roosevelt, says Keohane, “exhibited pragmatism and idealism and combined deep moral conviction about their mission with administrative abilities.” But in 1935 Roosevelt published an article on why women were not ready to run for high office; “they had not learned to build networks or become organized. She argued that women ‘should come up from the bottom and learn their jobs in public life, step by step, and above all they must learn to take other women with them.’ In 1936 she wrote that women in politics must be ready to ‘stand up and be shot at,’ and ‘all women in public life needed to develop skin as touch as rhinoceros hide.'”

How prescient.

Leadership Learning


One size does not fit all, when it comes to leadership styles, says Nan Keohane (photo at left). The former president of Wellesley College, and the first woman president of Duke University, Keohane is teaching at Princeton University now, and her latest book, Thinking About Leadership, published by Princeton University Press is an inspiring and anecdote-filled trip through past and current history. She gives a talk at Princeton Public Library on Monday, January 31, at 7:30 p.m. As a Duke alumna who has heard her on several occasions, I can testify she’s an excellent speaker, not to be missed.

Like Nan Keohane, Cynthia Cherrey (right) knows what it’s like to lead under pressure. An authority on organizational leadership she was a dean at Tulane during the Katrina disaster and is now vice president for campus life at Princeton. She speaks to the Princeton chamber on Thursday, February 3, at 11:30 p.m. on “Crisis Management in a Networked World.”

These women’s speaking engagements are a week or more away, but next week has several excellent leadership learning opportunities. On Monday, January 24, the annual evening put together by Community Works will feature lots of workshops, including one on recruiting volunteers and another on identifying, recruiting, and cultivating board members. Though preregistration is closed, walk-ins are welcome. Come to the Frist Center with a $29 check made out to Rotary Club of Princeton and take your first-come first-serve chance at two of the 20 workshops, plus a keynote by jazz educator Anthony J. Branker.
On Wednesday, January 26, 8 to 10 a.m., at the Johnson Education Center, D&R; Greenway, the Princeton Regional Chamber Foundation presents Bill Clark, president and executive of Philabundance, in a workshop, “Corporate Volunteerism: Building Partnerships, Building Teams, Building Community.” The cost is $10, and it’s open to all. It aims to teach business people how to leverage their relationships with non profits.
A follow-up workshop addresses the same topic, this time from the non-profit side: How can non-profits work successfully with for-profit businesses? Meredith Hahn, director of community service for American Express Office of Corporate Social Responsibility, will speak at the Princeton Regional Chamber Foundation event on Wednesday, February 9, 8 to 10 a.m., at the New Jersey Hospital Association. Her topic: “Corporate Volunteerism: Good Citizenship, Good Business.” Pre-register for $20.
And meanwhile the Princeton Environmental Film Festival tempts at the Princeton Public Library, through this weekend. Such choices to make!

Not in Their Bordentown

An updated version of the original post: please see italics below.
They picketed the funerals of those felled in Tucson, and now they are coming to New Jersey. But people are banding together to protest the protestors, the extremists from Kansas.
U.S. Army Spc Benjamin Moore, a Bordentown native, was killed in Afghanistan, and his funeral is this Saturday atTrinity United Methodist Church. The mayor of Bordentown has issued a proclamation honoring the fallen soldier. At least 150 people including VFW members, the soldier’s fellow firefighters, a group called Compassionate Friends, and retirees from the New Jersey State Police plan a counter demonstration. Like the citizens of Tucson, they have an action plan. They will offer a human fence to protect friends and family, and a group called Angels will dress up in outfits with large wings to hide the protesters. (Above, a picture of an Angel group in Tucson).
Reverend Tom Miller, the pastor at Trinity, says everyone who wants to be supportive is welcome. There are parking concerns, so a lot has been set up on Route 130 south at a former Acme Market, where there will be shuttles to take people into town. As of Wednesday evening, according to the Facebook page of “Angels for Ben,” supporters are invited to meet at this parking lot on Saturday, January 22, at 6 a.m. to be shuttled into town by 7:30 a.m. The viewing begins at 9 a.m. at the church. In contrast to the expected behavior of the Westboro contingent, the counter demonstration is to be peaceful and nonconfrontational.
Says Bordentown: Not in our town, will we allow hate to prevail.
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Note: I updated this post to take out the name of the organization that calls itself a church, so as to diminish the publicity it craves. It is not affiliated with any denomination and Christians universally reject its beliefs.

Appropriately, the Times of Trenton ran one article about the soldier without mentioning the controversy. The family will be able to clip it for a hate-free entry in their scrapbook. However I object to the way the Times ran the headline with ‘hero’ in quotes, as if some people called him a hero but the editors couldn’t go out on a limb and say it was, indeed, true. This soldier had a chest full of medals. I believe it would have been safe and editorially correct to deem him a hero without quotes.

Bordentown has rallied, and is hoping that perhaps the Kansas people won’t show up after all. (Note as of Saturday afternoon: They did NOT show up.)

To follow what’s happening in real time, log onto Twitter.com and search on #BenMoore. The Trentonian also offers live coverage on its website.

Last week the pastor of my church, Princeton United Methodist, Jana Purkis-Brash, preached about the social justice views of Methodists and how — in all ways — Methodists reject the teachings of the Kansas-based supposed church. Her message is on the website.

Recalling the time when the Kansas-based group picked churches on Nassau Street — including ours — some 10 years ago, PUMC-er Mary Lib wrote to me about how the late Carl Fuchs, a longtime and beloved PUMC member, responded. “It was warm weather, and the choir was outside preparing to enter the church for the processional. From the demonstrators: ‘FAGGOTS ARE GOING TO HELL!’ Reply from brother Carl: ‘NO, YOU’RE GOING TO HELL. WE’RE OVER HERE AT CHURCH!’ ”


Sizzling Sausage: Hot Tips for Employers

What to do with the 20-something in your company? Jo Leonard offers a host of ideas at a Princeton chamber breakfast on Wednesday, January 19, at the Nassau Club on “Why Generation Ys are Good for Your Business.”

Among her tips – get them networking. They’re the ones to do your Twitter and Facebook pages. Let them update your legacy software. Give them a second title that recognizes their perceived value, like “productivity guru.” And more.

If you don’t get to go to the breakfast (sorry about the late notice), email Leonard for her tip sheet.

If you’re reading this and thinking about going, remember that the Nassau Club has terrific hot breakfasts. The networking is at 7:30, the munching starts at 8, and you’re done at 9:15.

Honoring Dr. King

The good neighbor looks beyond the external accidents and discerns those inner qualities that make all men human and, therefore, brothers.” So said Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, the focus of attention over these next few days. Do any of these opportunities to focus on Dr. King’s ideals speak to you?


A listening opportunity: “Why is it so difficult to have conversations about race?” Melissa Harris Perry helped to answer that question, speaking with Marty Moss-Coane this morning on WHYY, and it will be rebroadcast tonight at 10 p.m. (Friday, January 14) and also available by podcast.


A service opportunity: come to PJ Hill school in Trenton on Monday, January 17, 9 to noon. Organizing for America NJ will organize volunteers to paint murals in the cafeteria, spruce up the grounds, and build picnic tables.

A children’s workshop: the Arts Council of Princeton will try to bring Dr. King’s efforts to life with an afternoon of creative learning, artistic expression, and hands on fun, Monday, January 17, 1 to 4 p.m. at the Paul Robeson Center for the Arts, cosponsored by the Kidsbridge Tolerance Museum.
A university celebration: Princeton University will hold its annual awards ceremony on Monday, January 17, 1 p.m. in Richardson Auditorium, Alexander Hall.

A worship opportunity: attend the Princeton Clergy Association’s annual interfaith service on Monday, January 17, 7 to 8:30 p.m. at Princeton United Methodist Church, 7 Vandeventer Street. The Coalition for Peace Action is the co-sponsor. Pastor Catherine Williams, pastoral assistant at Princeton United Methodist Church, will preach. Music will be provided by the Combined Choir of Mt. Pisgah and Lashir of the Jewish Center of Princeton, and there
will be solos by Carlensha Bethea Grady of Nassau Presbyterian Church and Stuart Lehman of the Jewish Center.
A youth interfaith service: bring the family to the First Baptist Church youth day, 126 Kids in Jeans, on Sunday, January 23, at 10:30 p.m. The number 126 refers to the age of the church. (Shown above, the church’s “I Have a Dream” memorial).
A discussion opportunity: attend one of the series, Continuing Conversations on Race, sponsored by Not in Our Town, at the Princeton Public Library on first Mondays. The next is Monday, February 7, at 7:30 p.m.

Martin Luther King also said, “In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.”

Guest Post: on Community Works

Princeton’s Community Works is always a “must do” in January. As a guest post, here is a letter that CW volunteer Krystal Knapp wrote to remind her friends to register. Thanks, Krystal!

Dear Friends and Colleagues,


Do you know a nonprofit or civic group leader, staff member or volunteer who could benefit from a night of networking and training? If so, please forward this information to them along with the attached flyer.

On the evening of Jan. 24 we will hold the 14th annual Community Works conference at the Frist Center at Princeton University. Our keynote speaker will be Dr. Anthony Branker, director of the program in jazz studies at Princeton.

Workshops range from topics like Raising Money in Difficult Times and The Grantwriter’s Toolbox to Recruiting and Cultivating Board Members and Attracting and Retaining Volunteers. There are 20 workshops to choose from, with several new workshops this year, including a session on how to leverage your volunteer experience to find a paying job.

The $29 fee for the conference includes a networking session, keynote, two workshops, a boxed dinner, coffee and snacks. We expect to have more than 400 attendees. People interested in registering should do so ASAP to get their first choice of workshops.

More information about the conference can be found at PrincetonCommunityWorks.org.

Thanks for helping us spread the word. If you have already registered we look forward to seeing you on the 24th.

Best wishes for a happy and healthy 2011,

Krystal Knapp


I’d like to add that more than 200 organizations have been represented over the past 13 years. Check out this list. I bet your group is on it.
Those who hope to benefit from corporate contributions to their charities would do well to attend the Princeton Chamber of Commerce Foundation Program on Wednesday, January 26, at 8 a.m. at the D&R; Greenway Johnson Education Center. Bill Clark of Philabundance will keynote. Cost: $10.

BFF



Entrepreneurs in a Material World

Can wannabe entrepreneurs take time to listen to David Pogue expound on Innovation? Len Newton asked this question and called this presentation at WHYY to my attention. On Wednesday, January 26, 6:30 to 9 p.m. in Philadelphia, New York Times columnist David Pogue (above) will host a screening of Nova’s “Making Stuff,” billed as “a groundbreaking series that focuses on the personal qualities that underlie the process of invention — the visionary talent, sheer luck and dogged determination that turn a wild idea into a cutting-edge material.” The series premieres on Wednesday, January 19, at 9 p.m.

After the January 26 screening Pogue will preside over a panel of U Penn and Drexel materials scientists, to include Dr. Mitra Taheri, Hoeganaes Assistant Professor of Metallurgy, Department of Materials Science and Engineeri
ng, Drexel University; Dr. Yury Gogotsi, Distinguished University and Trustee Chair Professor, Department of Materials Science and Engineering, Drexel University; Dr. Robert Carpick, Professor, Department of Mechanical Engineering and Applied Mechanics and Department of Materials Science and Engineering, University of Pennsylvania, and Penn Director of the Nanotechnology Institute; and Dr. Daniel Gianola, Skirkanich Assistant Professor, Department of Materials Science and Engineering, University of Pennsylvania.

As Len Newton says, the price is right, it’s free. But you absolutely must register.

Closer geographically, perhaps dearer to the hearts and minds of New Jersey’s entrepreneurs, is the New Jersey Entrepreneurial Network meeting on Wednesday, February 2 at noon at Rutgers University Welcome Center in Piscataway. Lt. Gov. Kim Guadagno (upper right) will keynote on the topic how can entrepreneurs access university research, technology, and resources. I

f you register, it costs $40 and you get your name on the roster that will be distributed (a valuable perk) $50 at the door.

Guadagno will also speak on a presumably different topic at the Mercer County Economic Summit on Wednesday, March 16. Her appearance hasn’t been announced yet though, so act surprised.

Jo Leonard will discuss “Why Generation Ys are Good for Business” at the Princeton Regional chamber breakfast meeting on Wednesday, January 19, at 7:30 a.m. at the Nassau Club.

Save the date: Bill Ford, Princeton Class of ’79, speaks at the Keller Center on Tuesday, February 15, 4:30 p.m.

T-Shirts Build New Jersey Pride



Here are some nuggets from Thursday’s Princeton chamber lunch:

The record for eating oysters is 102 in two minutes (apropos of the February 6 Oyster Bowl, the annual fundraiser for the Susan G. Komen Foundation staged by restaurateur and chamber board member Jack Morrison).

Bob Hillier, architect and chamber chairman, has found a way to do business with eight chamber member businesses (apropos of how chamber membership is about giving business as well as getting business).

Jeff Vanderbeek, owner of the New Jersey Devils and the luncheon speaker (above), effectively used his Wall Street background in several ways. He didn’t say, but it goes without saying, that he exited Lehman Brothers at the right time. He has wealth and was willing to risk some of it for the good of Newark.

His father had advised him to divide his life into three segments: “learn,” “earn,” and “return,” and now he is in the third phase.

But my ears pricked up when he talked about buying steel for the $400 million new stadium, the first to open in the tri-state area in three decades. Vanderbeek knew enough about the futures market to buy his steel ahead of time. By the time he needed it, Katrina had come along, and the price had skyrocketed.

Freelance reporter Wendy Plump covered the speech well in the Times of Trenton and included a couple more of my favorite comments, such as the story about how — whe
never newspaper headlines prophesied doom for the Prudential stadium — Vanderbeek put those headlines on T-shirts and distributed them to the construction workers: “It’s great to have an enemy because you can galvanize your foes…Management walked around with a smile because your troops have to see you looking cheery. It was us against the world. It was us against the naysayers. You have to will your way through it sometimes.” The stadium came through on time and on budget.

Vanderbeek also pointed out that his team is the only one to wear the state name on their shirts.
Who taught him how to motivate a team? My guess is, he learned it playing high school sports. The inside joke of the day was that Vanderbeek and Larry Krampf, past chamber chairman (shown at right with Cheryl Durst), had played on rival football teams in high school. In one hard-fought game they collided on the field, and Krampf walked away minus his two front teeth.

Krampf must have had a good dentist. Larry, your teeth look terrific now.

PS Thanks to Present Company for the luncheon dessert — elegant boxed chocolates on each table.

Waiters Holiday: At the Witherspoon Grill


You know that Princeton has come up in the world, as a dining destination, when a French waiter from a very French Upper East Side restaurant (left) chooses a Princeton restaurant (above) for his night on the town.


It was one of those fun Princeton-in-the-wider-world moments. On the spur of the moment today we hopped the train to catch the almost-last showing of Peter Greenaway’s evocation of Da Vinci’s Last Supper at the Park Avenue Armory. (How did I know about it? I wanted to see a Greenaway installation in Venice and missed it by a fluke. I would have missed this one except that Ragged Sky Press happened to tweet about it. The power of Twitter!)

We figured there would plenty of places to eat around there, in the neighborhood of Hunter College. Wrong. We began to think we would have to settle for pizza when we stumbled into what looked like a hotel but was actually an elegant French restaurant on Park Avenue at 65th. (When I first wrote this I didn’t include the actual name of the restaurant, but now I can — it’s Daniel’s.. Turns out it has three Michelin *** and four New York Times stars and is arguably the best French restaurant in Manhattan.)


We weren’t dressed for elegant dining but they let us hang out in the lounge, and having consumed some really fabulous food, delivered with really fabulous service, discovered that our waiter (I don’t have his permission to use his name) actually lives in Bucks County and commutes by NJ Transit.

We chatted about Princeton’s dining scene; he remembered Les Copains and said his favorite spot is the Witherspoon Grill, because it does such great things with meats. He brings his wife there for his own night on the town.

When I get his permission I’ll add his name and the name of the New York eatery. (It’s Pascal Vittu, and he’s the cheese steward at Daniel’s.) Here’s the strange or perhaps not so strange part: He had never heard of Lahiere’s.