Questioning the Values of the Establishment

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Achieve Achieve Achieve? Maybe competing for good grades is not a good enough value, said New York Times columnist David Brooks, speaking to a Princeton University audience last week. He said he was disappointed that university students — whom he famously criticized a decade ago for being overly competitive — still place too much emphasis on achievement. “The language of achievement has overshadowed the language of virtue,” he said.

 
Many of the same views are held by Roberto Schiraldi, a counselor and therapist who formerly worked at Princeton University. He contrasts the values of elitism, power, wealth and control with the values of cooperation, sharing, support, and service. He questions what Princeton students and residents hold as core values and how these values relate to white privilege and race. 
 
Schiraldi and Barbara Fox will facilitate a discussion at the monthly session, co-sponsored by Not in Our Town, of Continuing Conversations on Race and White Privilege, on Monday, December 3, at 7:30 p.m. at the Princeton Public Library. All are welcome. 

Gadgets, a Gala, and Entrepreneurs

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Uncertain about which techie treat to gift or get? Doug Dixon does his popular show and tell at the Princeton Public Library on Wednesday, November 28, at 7 p.m.  Click here for the print version, the cover story in U.S. 1 Newspaper. 

Oops, maybe you are going — or want to go — to the Princeton Regional Chamber gala that same night. The Business Leadership Awards Gala will honor Georgianne Vinnicombe, Martin Johnson, Herb Greenberg, and Peter Inverso.  (These are some pretty amazing people who will give interesting acceptance speeches. I’m told there are barely a handful of tickets left, but you can still go.)

Dixon will also speak Tuesday, December 4, at 10 a.m. at the Hopewell Township Library, and at 1:30 p.m. at the Ewing Township Senior Center; and Wednesday, December 5, at 7 p.m. at the Hopewell Train Station.

The Keller Center at Princeton University is fully scheduled for the next week. On Friday, November 30, at 7 p.m., it’s fun (and often enlightening) to listen to the students compete at a “pitch contest” at Robertson Hall. 

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Johann Schleier-Smith (left), the entrepreneur who founded Tagged, a social media firm, will speak on Tuesday, December 4, at 4:30 p.m at the Fields Center. 

Aneesh Chopra, Obama’s former CTO, speaks on Monday, December 10, at 4:30 p.m. at Robertson Hall. 

ACG New Jersey offers Path to Going Public – latest trends in financing and growth strategies  on Thursday, December 6, at 6 p.m. at the Westin. 

Not Nutcracker: Thelonious Monk, Peter Martins

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Point One: Yes, Virginia, you can see dance without the sugarplum fairy in December. Here’s a chance to see a free, on-the-edge dance-jazz-performance event. Thomas de Frantz, a professor at Duke University, focuses in his academic life on  how African Americans use their bodies to perform various identities: gender, regional location, sexual identities, race and class, among others. 


On Sunday, December 2, 7 p.m., in Princeton University’s Hagan Dance Studio, he will perform ‘Monk’s Mood: a Performance Meditation on the Life and Music of Theolonious Monk,’  “as a wordless, danced, biography of the late jazz musician and composer,” quoting the press release. “Presented with Eto Oro, this multimedia performance is created with Miditron and Isadora technology, and utilizes random images and songs to create a spontaneous improvisation, or live choreography at its very best.” 

Please note that the Hagan studio is usually light on production values. Just the basics. That’s a drawback that the new Lewis Center will fix.

For a short example, click here 

 Point Two: When watching Leslie Stahl’s profile of Peter Martins on Sunday, I was awash in nostalgia. Who else remembers Peter Martins of 25 years ago, tall-blonde-and-gorgeous, presiding royally at Scanticon (now the Forrestal Marriott). Scanticon — owned and founded by a Dane — had just opened, and the then Danish Prince of Ballet had just finished a guest Nutcracker gig with the young company Princeton Ballet. If I remember correctly, he partnered the young Heather Watts. Everyone, including me, was agog. 


Scanticon did itself proud with such luxurious goodies as salmon flown in that day from Copenhagen. Nice memories — and they still echo when I walk in the door of the still-cozy Forrestal Marriott. And here is an extra-yummy look at New York City Ballet, a master class.  

Belpw,  some other Not Nutcracker opportunities. This list was cadged from http://www.princetoninfo.com, the website for U.S. 1 Newspaper.Just go to the site and it will cough up all the dance events.


(11/30/2012 – Dance), Dance Plus Fall, Mason Gross School of the Arts, Mastrobuono Theater, 85 George Street, New Brunswick, 732-932-7511
7:30 p.m., Works by Robert Battle, Julie Bour, Patrick Corbin, and faculty members. $25.,www.masongross.rutgers.edu

(12/01/2012 – Dance), Fleet, Princeton University, McCarter Theater (Berlind), 609-258-1500
2 p.m. and 8 p.m., Guest and student choreography. $15., www.princeton.edu

(12/01/2012 – Dance), Dance Plus Fall, Mason Gross School of the Arts, Mastrobuono Theater, 85 George Street, New Brunswick, 732-932-7511

7:30 p.m., Works by Robert Battle, Julie Bour, Patrick Corbin, and faculty members. $25.,www.masongross.rutgers.edu

Princeton’s Cornerstone Community Kitchen Offers WiFi

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When Hurricane Sandy hit, virtually all of Princeton lost power and phone service. The next day, Princeton United Methodist Church – situated on a busy corner — opened its doors. That day, and all that week, Pastor Jana Purkis-Brash and Music Director Hyosang Park plugged in the coffee pot and posted a sign on the lawn. It read:  Come in! Get warm! Charge and use our WiFi!

On Wednesday two dozen passersby sought brief refuge from the cold, plus nearly 100 people spent the day — they charged their phones and logged onto PUMC’s Wifi. Those who were stranded made travel arrangements; others answered their office email or updated Facebook pages so their friends would know they were OK. Church members hosted in the Sanford Davis room. Then at 4 p.m. the Cornerstone Community Kitchen team converted it into a dining room. That’s because PUMC – in partnership with the Trenton Area Soup Kitchen — serves free meals to all on Wednesdays. This week PUMC’s Cornerstone Community Kitchen menu was roast pork and mashed potatoes, salad, and dessert for 73 hungry people.

On Thursday PUMC hosted 75 WiFi users – everyone from entrepreneurs who stayed all day to families with children who just dropped by. Some were referred by the Princeton Public Library, which was having trouble meeting the demand. Even PUMC’s WiFi had faltered because of too many users, so two more Wifi nodes were added.  On Thursday PUMC  served breakfast, lunch, and another Cornerstone Community Kitchen dinner – this time, spaghetti for 100 people. At that point few in Princeton had power, and it was getting quite cold. PUMC hosted again on Friday.
“You imagine that this is what a church should do, but you rarely ever see it done,” said Diana Rhodes, one of the grateful visitors. “What a wonderful service you have provided!”

Thursday at PUMC: Warmth, Wifi, Food

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For our neighbors who are chilled and the power-less — Since Tuesday, Princeton United Methodist Church, corner of Nassau at the Garden Theatre — has been open for “charging,” for WIFI, and for coffee and snacks. Today (Thursday) we’re serving lunch and dinner, a spaghetti dinner, open to all. 

Yesterday, Wednesday, 200 people came in from the cold. Later in the day we lost the WIFI — it was overpowered by the demand — but we have it back now and are watching out so that doesn’t happen again. And Wednesday was our weekly Cornerstone Community Kitchen supper; we partner with the Trenton Area Soup Kitchen for the hot meal and add the fresh fruits and vegetables.

So….stop by today or tomorrow, so we can help you stay warm! 609-924-2613

Social Media 101: Selling Never Works

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Why social media for nonprofits? This is Americaand this is fast, said David Yunghans of Constant Contact. He led a pretty fabulous morning workshop, sponsored by the Princeton Regional Chamber, at the Nassau Club on October 24. I attended along with four others from Princeton United Methodist Church, and I also took notes on behalf of Not in Our Town Princeton and United Front Against Riverblindness – as well as for my personal blog, Princeton Comment. The next session is Tuesday, November 20, and I highly recommend it. It costs $20 for chamber members, $25 for others.
Information is everywhere, Yunghans noted. People are using Facebook as a search engine. His first anecdote was about how one tweet “How about helping a charity that helps kids” resulted in a sponsored fundraiser netting $75,000. (It was his Tweet, and it helped the charity his wife runs.) He says he can reach 1 million people in 60 seconds. 
The secret sauce of 21stcentury marketing: Selling never works.  Don’t ask for anything. Just report what is happening. Show people what you have done with their money. Tell them what you are going to do with their money. Always tell the truth. The new style of advertising: deliver a value statement, not a donate or buy me statement. 
Be patient. People will not give money until they are ready. You may or may not get paid today, but you will get paid. Don’t give up on them (He told the story of the chef who unfriended him, because he never opened her emails, but he just happened to be ready to pay her $5,000 for a birthday trip for his wife. He could have found her but didn’t). 
Reject the old marketing paradigm, the top down funnel, known as A.I.D.A. The new marketing – a reverse funnel – is a pyramid. Instead of trying to get the most possible clients, focus your time on the small group of people who already know you, love you, care about you, who will be heartbroken if you fail. Ask them to speak well of you. But you must ask. The difference between asking and not asking is huge. (Example, helping an author whose business was in the tank, and 18 months later, she is keynoting in Paris and has a 230,000 Twitter following. Now, if he asks a return favor, asking her to tweet something, he gains 25 new followers.)
People will not donate until they are ready. Don’t give up on them (story of the chef who unfriended him, because he never opened her emails, but he just happened to be ready to pay her $5,000 for a birthday trip for his wife. He could have found her but didn’t). 
Show value. The economy has changed everything. What matters is the value you provide. Show photos of children being helped. Show what is happening to the money.
Here are some of his quick tips.
Save time: Clean up your inbox — use www.nutshellmail.comto organize and combine your comments, alerts, etc. on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. You can choose how often you want to look at them.
Learn how: www.socialquickstarter.com,  a free Constant Comment product, shows you how to do everything on the major social media platforms. His company’s motto, a good one for every organization, is “give away relevant information for free.” Says Yunghans, “People follow me because I find information and let other people know about it. I am building trust.”
Add followers. Start with one, build slowly and honestly. Think of Aunt Minnie, the town gossip on the party line. You want the Aunt Minnies to talk about you. With social media we can, as one person, talk to many people. (Yunghans suggests you don’t need to, and shouldn’t, share personal information on your organization account or even your personal account that you are using for business. I have heard differing opinions about this. Other experts say ‘it makes you real.’)
Keep checking your reputation with Socialmention.com. You can set the search to find anything said about you in the past 24 hours or in the past week or month. Among other measures, it measures sentiment and passion (more than one visit). Use a Boolean search (in quotes) for a more accurate search.
Overcome objections of a dinosaur board with statistics. The fastest growing segment on the Internet is people older than 55.  It is free. They have time. They want to put up photos of their grandchildren.   
Tell the truth.People will verify it. On the web, 98 percent speak of you in a positive or neutral way. One percent are trolls, so ignore them, don’t engage. The other one percent may be telling the truth – a perfect time to engage. People believe yelp and trip advisor because real people are telling their version of the truth, and you have to sift through that.
Brand yourself on the Internet. Put logos on everything you send out – and don’t change the color. When people sign up they have to know and recognize your brand. Make sure your colors and logos are correct and they know who you are. Secure the vanity URL.
Use videos. They work if it is something fun.. When I checked socialmention.com for my church I found the most adorable video of a festival of children’s choirs, held in Princeton, and the kids are singing Dona Nobis Pacem. What a great video to use on our Facebook page. (Yes, I know there might be copyright problems but I betcha Dona Nobis is out of copyright!)
If you were at this workshop, chime in! Comment or tweet your favorite tip! 

Pictured, from left — me, Sarah Harris, Andrea Spuck, Yunghans, and Iona Harding. Not shown, Lula Crawford). 

Social Media: The Architect of Our Intimacies?

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Get a double dose of communications skills on Wednesday, October 24. Particularly if you work for a charity — or support one with your time — you will want to take the first of three social media sessions designed by the Princeton Regional Chamber for those in the non-profit arena. In this breakfast workshop at the Nassau Club, 8 to 10:30 p.m., a rep from Constant Contact will teach why social media is important (DUH), how social media has changed the non-profit landscape, and how to get started with it, get content, and find success. The discussion will include Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram. Cost for non-profit chamber members: $20, $5 more for non-members. That includes a full breakfast.

Although I already tweet and (obviously) blog I’m eager to attend. For instance, I tweet and Facebook for myself and my church, and I blog for myself and Not in Our Town, but it’s often a challenge to figure out which “voice” I’m using when. I’ve never used Instagram, and I’m still distributing this blog the old-fashioned way, with emails. I want to pick up some pointers.

That same evening, New Jersey CAMA presents Sarah Morgan, 6 to 8 p.m., at the Delaware Raritan Greenway. After drinks and munchies she will talk about “Writing for Results: Why Writing Matters.” A communications manager at Merck, Sarah has a personal blog at sarah-morgan.com and tweets at twitter.com/sarahmorgan. Though it seems like a general topic, social media is sure to be included in her talk, because she wrote her Fordham master’s thesis on how social media is changing language. It’s $25 for members, $30 for nonmembers, and you can reserve by PayPal.

The CAMA event is for everyone. The more in-depth chamber workshops are theoretically only for nonprofits, but if you work in a for profit business, why not register as a representative of the charity you support? The chamber’s morning workshops will continue on November 20 and December 11, and, if you go to all three, you save money — the third session is free. The November focus is on best practices in email — how and why your email does or doesn’t get opened. The December discussion will range from brand awareness to driving donations.


Does all this social media worry you? You’re concerned about the lack of face to face interaction? You have reason to be. says Shelley Turkle (left) interviewed on Fresh Air this week and author of Alone Together, Why We Expect More of Technology and Less of Each Other. “Technology proposes itself as the architect of our intimacies,” she writes.

If it’s getting so important, as ubiquitous as Turkle warns, we need to learn to do it right. 



Tennis, Dolphins, and Kitchen Kits

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Tennis, dolphins, and kitchen kits — they are all helping combat veterans make their way in civilian life. Matt McCarville put together a benefit for the Wounded Warrior Project at the Salt Creek Grill on Wednesday. The Wounded Warrior Project provides basic comfort items for wounded soldiers, stages adaptive sporting events and clinics to foster independence among those with severe injuries, transports soldiers and their families between homes and hospitals, and offers peer-mentoring programs.

Along with sumptuous food, and a silent auction replete with many treasures, guests learned about how recovering veterans get help from the United States Tennis Association and, locally, the  National Junior Tennis and Learning of Trenton which introduces skills and love for tennis in both the vets and their families. Dolphins? the Florida-based Dolphin Research Center offers swimming with dolphins as a therapeutic pleasure.

One of the stars of the evening (other than the food!) was John Fernandez, a West Point graduate  (U.S. Army First Lieutenant, retired) whose lost his feet in Iraq. He considers himself the lucky one, because those with him — his gunner, his driver, his first sergeant — lost their lives. In the photo at top, McCarville  (far right) speaks with the three Wounded Warriors at the event. From left;  U.S. Marine Corps Lance Corporal (Retired) Nancy Schiliro, Fernandez, and  U.S. Army Staff Sergeant John Gierke. 

Another star of the evening was Linda Munson of the Charles Evans Foundation (in the second photo with McCarville). The foundation helps fund the Wounded Warriors and also contributes to the soldiers’ rehabilitation through the tennis and dolphin charities. (Photos by Judith Arnold)
As for the kitchen kits, they are provided by Daniel Griffin, a Vietnam veteran, who told of  Basecamp Westchester, which helps homeless veterans in Westchester County, New York. This subgroup of the Vietnam Veterans of America provides security deposits, computer training, and other services for previously homeless veterans. The kitchen kits? Plates, knives, forks, spoons — and a microwave — they recently helped a family of four that had been living in a car. All donations go directly to the cause. With the motto ‘never again  will one generation abandon another,’ all the workers at Basecamp Westchester are volunteers.

Extra note: The third annual Patriot Salute raised $30,000, as announced by Matthew McCarville in the comment below. He also notes: A closing THANK YOU to U.S. Army Staff Sergeant John Gierke, U.S. Marine Corps Lance Corporal (Retired) Nancy Schiliro, and U.S. Army First Lieutenant (Retired) John Fernandez, our three wounded veterans who attended the event last night.  We are all grateful for your service, and hope to honor your sacrifice as we try to live each day to the fullest under the safety and freedom that you helped to provide us.




Stoolmacher: Hunger’s Not a Game

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This is an endorsement, nay, an earnest recommendation of Phyllis Stoolmacher as a speaker for any community group. She is the for-forever director of the Mercer Street Friends Food Bank, which distributes 50,000 pounds of food a week to some 60 organizations to help feed 25,000 people in Mercer County who don’t have access to enough healthy food.

Feeding the hungry — that doesn’t sound like a fun topic, one that you would like to contemplate over a meal. But at a breakfast at my church last Sunday she quoted poignant stats like a politician, dispensed the folk wisdom with the aplomb of a culinary Dr. Ruth, and inspired like a preacher.

To be sure, she was preaching to the choir. Some at the gathering had just taken the food stamp challenge, to live for a week on the meagre amount provided by what is now called the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP). And the 25-year-old food bank partners with the Trenton Area Soup Kitchen which in turns partners with our church to deliver a weekly Wednesday meal at the Cornerstone Community Kitchen.

I learned new facts and confirmed what I already knew. Federal contribution of commodities has been cut by two thirds. A family of four can qualify for SNAP if the household income is less than $23,500, and this number does not account for the high cost of living in Mercer County. “It’s not a welfare program,” says Stoolmacher, “and we send our people out into the community with laptops to help people qualify.” Nutrition dollars come on a debit card so nobody can tell whether someone is swiping a credit card or the SNAP card. People stay on SNAP for an average of 9 months.

Restaurants can’t donate because of health issues. Supermarkets do donate, but not prepared food. The state provides funds to buy Jersey Fresh fruits and vegetables. Children who would otherwise go hungry on weekends get sent home with a backpack of easy-to-prepare microwavable meals. Simple recipes go into regular bags of groceries.

It’s best to give dollars rather than canned goods because the food bank can buy in bulk. “You would be surprised at what comes from food drives,” she said wryly, “how much cranberry sauce we get at Thanksgiving and how much matzoh we get in April. Who likes  matzoh? I want tuna fish! Give me tuna fish and I am a happy camper.”

What else can you/we do? Realize that someone you know may be “nutritionally challenged.” Encourage somebody who is looking for work, maybe they’ve run out of unemployment benefits, to sign up for the SNAP program. Or bring them to Cornerstone Community Kitchen on Wednesdays, from 5 to 6:30 p.m., at Princeton United Methodist Church, Nassau at Vandeventer.  Nobody knows the difference between the people who come for nutrition or those who come for conversation and companionship. There’s plenty of food on the plates, and there are flowers on the tables.
Some of that food found its way to Princeton via Stoolmacher. She won’t countenance empty or unhealthy calories — not soda, not Gatorade, not ramen noodles, not sweet cereal. Besides tuna fish, her most coveted item is shelf stable milk-in-a-box. “It tastes like real milk.”

From Optigrab to Endeca to Oracle

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This week’s top tech pick is a talk by a former Princeton student (left, Steve Papa) who cooked up an idea in his Harvard MBA dorm and sold it to Oracle for perhaps a billion dollars. It started as Optigrab but by the time of the Oracle sale was known as Endeca. The Keller Center notice: 

Steve Papa ’94: Luck Favors the Prepared
Thursday, October 18, 2012 at 4:30 p.m. in the Carl A. Fields Center Room 104 (campus map)The Keller Center is pleased to welcome Steve Papa ’94, founder and CEO of Endeca Technologies, Inc., to the Princeton campus on Thursday, October 18 at 4:30 pm. Reception to follow. Steve will share his story and some of the lessons learned for aspiring entrepreneurs and anyone interested in the good, the bad, and the ugly when building a successful technology company. Steve Papa ’94   founded and, with the help of a very talented team, built the software company Endeca from an idea in his grad school dorm room to Oracle’s 6th largest acquisition when announced in 2011. 

Alas, that Princeton alum started his company in Boston.

At the Princeton Regional Chamber  on Wednesday morning, you can hear about what’s being done about job creation in THIS area. Rep. Rush Holt speaks at the Wednesday, October 17 breakfast. It’s a different venue from the usual, it’s at the College of New Jersey’s new education building. That’s because the breakfast is a partnership with Trenton Small Business Week.    After Holt speaks about New initiatives in Washington and how they will impact the Princeton Region” Stick around for a workshop on government contracts. 

Entrepreneurs and startups are invited to “Celebrate Entrepreneurship at Princeton,” quoting from the Keller Center.
Tuesday, October 16, 2012 at 4:30 p.m. in the Carl A. Fields Center Room 104 (campus map)  The Keller Center will host its second annual “Celebrate Entrepreneurship at Princeton” event on Tuesday, October 16th in the Carl A. Fields Center on the Princeton campus. At the event, students who participated in the 2012 Princeton Entrepreneurial Internship Program will give presentations on their summer internship experiences working at startup companies. A light reception will follow.

If you have a startup or entrepreneur or just curious, you are welcome to attend to network with faculty, staff, and students. Here is a list of last year’s intern sponsors.